The Birthday Celebration: On Both Sides Now

 

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“The Birthday Celebration: On Both Sides Now”

Generally speaking, I do not give mediumship readings to family and friends because when I give a reading, I have to completely quiet my mind, connect with the other side, and just act a messenger for any visuals or information that I receive and the tricky part is keeping my logical brain quiet. With family and friends, information may come through that I already know which can get my noisy brain started with chatter with such things as, “You can’ say that. You already know that and they will think that you are making things up.” However, there are exceptions to every rule and I have given readings to a few friends who I knew know me well enough to know that I would never just make something up in such a solemn and beautiful situation.

Yesterday was my sister’s birthday. She passed in November, so this was our first one without her here in body. I have been incredibly connected to her since her passing and am deeply grateful for it. I’m not sure how we would all be coping without this line of communication. Still, I hadn’t yet sat down in an actual reading situation to specifically connect with her. Yesterday, I sat with my mom and we had the most incredible connection with my sister and some other relatives on the other side.

Being who she is, my sister had us laughing on multiple occasions and kept us pretty much amazed throughout. She shared information with us that I had no way of knowing but that my mom was able to validate. My mom’s father also came through with some very old memories that I was unaware of and that really touched my mom’s heart. Many others came through and it felt like a celebration in our hearts.

Basically, I am just jotting down these words down now because my gratitude needs to spill somewhere. Anyone who hasn’t ever felt and known a connection with the other side can’t really ever be given enough secondhand evidence because it is definitely through personal experience that we then know something to be true. It is my belief that it is through this unique personal knowing that our own personal belief system is best built.

If you or someone you know is suffering from profound grief, I encourage you to reach out to your loved ones. Ask for a unique sign. If you feel stuck and unable to make the connection, consider reaching out to an honest medium who practices evidential mediumship (bringing forth details that they couldn’t possibly know and that you or your family can validate). Ask your friends for referrals but above all else listen to your own intuition on who to choose. As you are going through the process, also maybe ask when payment is due: before or after the reading. Any person truly connected with the other side will accept payment after they have provided you with a valuable service. If they require it beforehand, it may be a red flag. Again, listen to your own intuition.

I’ve said it before and I’m sure that I will say it many more times: getting a mediumship reading – even a great one, will not erase your grief but it may help jumpstart your own ability to connect with your loved ones and it may make you smile.

For now, I am sending eternal gratitude to my sister and other loved ones on the other side for connecting with me and our mom yesterday. Mom texted me this morning to thank me again and said that as she has been moving throughout her day, she keeps remembering things and smiling. For a parent who has lost a child, that is a true and beautiful gift.

My hope is that you will come to know in your heart that there truly is no separation and that relationships never actually end but instead continue on in new and sometimes magical ways.